What do you do when you feel like your marriage is falling apart?

Yesterday was a nice day. We went out to dinner and yes it ended early because my son is a holy terror. We came home and I finished my dinner because you know 1/4 of your meal is not enjoyed. We came home went to bed and fell asleep. I was really looking forward to this weekend. We had no specific plans but I knew life would be good.

I should have known. Something somehow, somewhere would ruin this weekend. Ro and I woke up cuddling and chatting. I was getting up to make his other half of his steak. I opened the box it was gone. I thought maybe ro had eaten it at night. You know stranger things have happened but he turned beet red. Roana had been the culprit. I am trying to watch what she eats but it is impossible when she is so independent. That is a whole other post though.

Ro and I got into it. A lot of nasty things were said on both parts. For example I told him I went to the car so he could enjoy his food. He then told me He was not like me who scarfed my food down. Ok I shared with the kids and finished at home I am not a pig. Then he told me to look in the mirror and that I looked like a busted can of biscuits. Ok that was it. I smacked his leg and told him men are not supposed to have breasts. When I was younger I had bulimia. I could not even lose weight with that. Currently when I feel down with myself I do not eat. Maybe a meal a day. So I fear these crazy ways will start on me again. Sometimes I wonder if this is even worth it. Should I put up with it? We are all entitled to a bad day but what do you do when it seems like there is only one good day and the rest is bad? Thanks for listening to me vent.