Monday, June 30, 2008

My Couple of Days as A single mom

So now that I told you guys about the hospital drama I finally can settle down and tell you about how it felt to be single. The hospital allows unlimited visiting hours with the sibling and parents of the admitted child but lil Ro-N was trying to rip out the oxygen and take the breathing treatments. Ro being the responsible man he is took the baby home and left me alone at the hospital. I was laying on the pulll out and tossing and turning. Roana asked me mom where is dad? I told her hon he is with your brother. She cried and cried and asked for him. I let her talk to him on the phone but with her shortness of breath it was barely understandable. That night I missed I my husband. I missed feeling him in my arms and even his funny faces. He also got a dose of reality. He told me he was cleaning the apartment and Rogelito would not permit it more then a couple of minutes. We both had a little reality check. We love each other. Maybe not 100% of the time but we are compatible and very much in love. We complete each other and will grow old and grey together. So I guess its not so much single life but more a reality check. It's not that bad as long as you have true love and sometimes you have to hit those curveballs life throws you.

3 Comments / Comentarios:

Momto3LittleFlowers said...

Good to hear that he had a reality check... Maybe he will be a bit more understanding with chores from now on.....
Still praying for Roana... Hope she is better today!

Heather said...

Girl i know exactly how you feel. But i bet coming home and being reunited as a whole family was the best feeling in the world!
-h

My3Ro's said...

Anelys: Yes he had a reality check and is being more helpful. OUr apartment looks lived in right now but in maybe 10 minutes we could have it ready for company.

Heather: It felt so nice to be back together that night. It seemed like my baby grew up over night again. I know it was hard but what you and Ze go through almost monthly. I have found a new respect for you